The roadmap to your
10/10 love story.
Finding someone was never the hard part.
It's everything after: When your oldest fears show up wearing a mask.
Because it's rarely a bad match that sabotages your relationships.
It's how well you understand yourself, and how much you're willing to give and receive.
This is the roadmap for writing your own love story, by someone who rewrote her own.
I'm 28, five years into my marriage, and still in the honeymoon phase.
We keep choosing each other, every morning, and years of learning how to understand each other made that possible.
Before this, I spent years in data science and psychology at PwC and AstraZeneca, researching why people repeat the same patterns, and I built 10outOf10 because our generation was never taught how to be ready for the person we say we want.
If that's you too, you're not broken. You just never had the roadmap. Now you do.
Which one sounds like you right now?
Work with Samia, 1:1
You keep finding reasons to say no, or picking people who were never available, and calling it pickiness when it's really protection. One real session with Samia, built to find out what you're guarding against, and where to go from here.
See 1:1 sessionsThe Love Experiment
Already done the work on yourself? This is a fun social experiment, built for real connection, with games and challenges along the way. You will walk away with an experience of a lifetime, strong friendships, and hopefully, your soulmate.
Learn moreThe 1:1 Program
Seven short sessions, a clear look at your patterns, and a real plan for what comes next. In Sydney or virtual, built around your life.
One goal runs through the whole program: catch the patterns working against you, and bypass them before they sabotage you again.
Catch
Notice the thought the moment it fires.
Understand
See where it’s coming from.
Bypass
Build a new response, on purpose.
Repeat
Until it’s just what you do.
Clarity.
VirtualWhere you standWho You Are, Baseline Assessment, and Attachment Tree.
Pattern.
VirtualYour history, unfilteredRelationship Timeline and Your Pattern Map.
Values.
In PersonWhat you wantValues & Compatibility Profile and Vision Boarding.
Conflict.
In PersonHow you handle pressureConflict Profile and The Repair Toolkit.
Trust.
VirtualRebuilding it in yourselfSelf-Trust Audit and Your Boundary Reset.
Connection.
In PersonWhat real closeness requiresConnection Skills Practice and Your Closeness Map.
Roadmap.
In PersonYour plan for what’s nextYour Written Roadmap, Readiness Check, and Compatible Match Intro (if ready).
Clarity Session
- One focused session with Samia
- In person in Sydney, or virtual
- A same-day written summary and next step
The Roadmap Program
- 7 personalised sessions with Samia
- Baseline Assessment, Attachment Tree
- Values & Compatibility Profile
- Conflict Profile with a repair toolkit
- Priority entry to The Love Experiment
- 3 complimentary curated matches (if ready)
- 24 hrs support between sessions, when it matters
Every part of this program, coaching and education, not therapy, is designed and reviewed personally by Samia.
The Love Experiment
A fun social experiment, built for real connection. I curate the environment, and set the games and challenges, some playful, some genuinely difficult, and you choose your someone, if you're ready.
Can you handle conflict when it shows up? Let's find out.
Common questions
Is this therapy?
No. 10outOf10 offers coaching and education, not therapy or medical treatment. If you’re working through something that needs clinical support, we recommend seeking a licensed professional alongside or instead of coaching.
What’s the difference between the 1:1 sessions and The Love Experiment?
The 1:1 sessions are for people who aren’t dating yet, or who keep ending up in the same place and want to understand why first. The Love Experiment is an application-only program for people who are ready to meet someone.
Are sessions in person or virtual?
Mixed. Some sessions are held in person in Sydney, others are virtual, arranged around what fits your life.
How do I get considered for The Love Experiment?
It’s application-only, and every application is reviewed personally. Completing the 7-session program gives you a priority, personally-recommended path in, since by then Samia already knows your readiness in real depth.